What Guests Should Wear In Weddings


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When it comes to dressing for a wedding, many people do not know what they should wear. The biggest worry people have many times is being over or under dressed for the occasion. This is why it is helpful to know some of the best tips for dressing a wedding.

Find out how formal it is

This is important because you do not want to look like you are trying to outshine the bride by wearing something nicer than her. At the same time, you do not want people to think you do not respect the couple. If you are not sure, then ask the couple or someone in the wedding party to find out whether it is informal, semi-formal or formal. This can help alleviate a lot of hassle.

Look at the time of the wedding

If the couple is getting married during the day, then you can opt for a dress that is shorter than what you might choose for an evening wedding. It is also important to remember that you do not want to wear a black dress to a daytime wedding. For men, a daytime wedding will usually permit a dress shirt and tie where an evening wedding will generally require a full suit.

Consider the venue

Another important cue to consider when you are planning your outfit is to think about where the wedding will be held at. If it is a beach wedding, then you will want to wear something that is has more of a beach feel, with shoes to match, such as a nice wedge. For a wedding at a country club though, you will want to wear something that is high end and trendy. Keep in mind that most churches and religious institutions will require the shoulders to be covered. If the wedding will be in a location like this, be sure to have a shawl or other cover up just in case out of respect.

Important tips to remember

  • One of the worst things you can do as a woman is to wear white to the wedding. This does not mean there cannot be white in the color scheme, but do not go with a white dress as that is reserved for the bride and in some cases the mother of the bride.
  • Remember to wear clothing that is not too revealing. It is disrespectful to show up to a wedding wearing club wear or see through clothing.
  • Do not wear opera length gloves unless you have on a strapless or sleeveless dress.
  • For men, no matter how formal a wedding is, if it is during the day, you do not want to wear a tuxedo.

As you are planning what you will wear, it is also important to think about the perfume you will be wearing. You do not want to go with something that is over the top. This is because there will be many people in a confined space and you do not want to be suffocated by the smell of perfume. This is why you want to find a scent that will be light, but still smell great.

The main thing to keep in mind is that you do not want to be too creative and extravagant with the clothing you wear. Even though you will want to look good, the spotlight for the day should be on the couple, not on you. This is why it is important to go with an outfit that is fitting for the event.


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